Building New Friendships at Bonterra

February 17, 2025

Moving to a 55+ community like Bonterra can be a refreshing new start filled with opportunities to make friends and explore interests. It's a unique environment where everyone is in the same boat, eager to build new connections and share experiences. Whether you're naturally outgoing or a bit reserved, this stage of life offers the perfect backdrop for forging meaningful relationships. How do you get started? Here are a few tips.

Participate in Community Events

Getting involved in community events is a fantastic way to kickstart your social life. At Bonterra, there's no shortage of fun and engaging activities to help you mix and mingle. Holidays bring neighbors together for celebration and laughter, while themed parties offer a chance to dress up and let loose. Don't be shy about stepping out of your comfort zone. The beauty of these events is that everyone is there for the same reason—to socialize and have a good time. If you’re feeling a bit nervous, try attending with a neighbor you’ve already met. This can make it easier to join in and start conversations with others.

Join Clubs

Finding and joining clubs and interest groups can be a delightful way to dive into your hobbies while meeting new people. Whether it's gardening, book discussions or crafting, there's bound to be a group that fits your interests. If your passion isn’t represented, consider taking the initiative to start your own group. You might be pleasantly surprised by how many neighbors share your interests and are just waiting for someone to take the lead.

Use the Amenities

One of the standout features of Bonterra is its thoughtfully designed common areas, particularly the clubhouse. This central spot is perfect for striking up casual conversations over coffee or engaging in friendly games of cards. Fitness enthusiasts will love the state-of-the-art gym and group exercise rooms. Whether you're taking part in a calming yoga class or an energetic Zumba session, these activities provide a great way to stay active while connecting with others. Lounge by the pool, relax in the hot tub and don’t forget to greet your neighbors with a wave and a smile.

Make the Most of Technology

You’re never too old to make the most of technology. Social media platforms and the Cross Creek Ranch resident app make it easy to stay updated on events, join discussions and even organize meet-ups. Virtual meetups and online forums are perfect for starting conversations and discovering common interests with your neighbors. So, embrace the digital tools available and see how they can enrich your social life in ways you never imagined!

Encourage Family and Friends Visits

Opening your doors to family and friends can truly enhance your experience at Bonterra. Sharing your new community with loved ones not only enriches your life but also helps you build connections with neighbors. Imagine hosting a sunny afternoon barbecue where your relatives mingle with your new friends, exchanging stories and laughs. These gatherings can create a welcoming environment and make everyone feel at home.

Be Open and Approachable

Remember that everyone in your community is eager to make friends, just like you. So, don't be afraid to make the first move. Offer to help someone with their groceries or invite a neighbor for a cup of coffee. Small acts of kindness can break the ice and lead to lasting friendships.

Start Making Friends Today

Ready to start making friends? Visit Bonterra and learn how you can enhance your Golden Years. We can’t wait to meet you.